Torn apart: silent victims of parental child abduction


July 12, 2012

Source: Radioaustralia.net

Each year thousands of children around the world are victims of parental child abduction. They’re innocent victims caught up in a very adult world where disputes between parents have gone from bad to worse.

There is an international legal treaty in place to try to deter the practice, but many nations in the Asia Pacific are not signatories and now the Australian Government is being asked to try to change that. Catherine Graue reports.

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Parental Child Abduction: How to Find a Good Child Custody Attorney / Lawyer


A good lawyer is an investment, and often the difference between win or loose. You will need a lawyer who specialize in international parental child abduction. This is the most important momentum in IPCA cases.

Divorce and parental child abduction is a very hard process in itself. And when the children are involved it’s always difficult. And fight for the rights to have the custody over a child may be a very important fight in a person’s life. But courts try to consider all the facts of the case and try to make the best decision for a child. This decision should benefit to a child greatly.

Most people do not have a clue how to find a good lawyer when they need one. In fact, statistics show that 68% of consumers spend two hours or fewer gathering information before selecting a lawyer. The vast majority of consumers report feeling they “can trust” their lawyer is the most important factor in the selection process. 

There are almost as many different practice areas as there are lawyers. For example, a lawyer who practices admiralty law might not be the best attorney to assist a person needing a divorce. Or, a construction lawyer might not be best suited for a real estate dispute.

Our advice is to avoid local lawyers from small law offices. Try to get a well experienced one that are recommended by your local missing children organization.

One of the best resources to find a lawyer that does the kind of law you need is through other lawyers. Everyone should know at least one lawyer they could call and ask for a referral. Even if the lawyer you know practices criminal law and you need someone to prepare a will, the criminal lawyer will be able to give you some referrals in the practice area you need.

There are also referral lists maintained by most local and state bar associations. The downfall of using these services is that there is usually no screening on the qualifications of the particular lawyer with the individual need. It is then up to the consumer to inquire sufficiently into the lawyer’s experience compared to the need of the consumer.

The internet is an extremely beneficial source of locating a lawyer. Many websites maintain directories of lawyers nationwide. Most law firms these days maintain websites and usually you can find those through any search engine. Often lawyers are active in professional or community organizations which may be featured on a website.

The next step is to conduct an in-person meeting with the attorney. The initial interview with an attorney that you are considering hiring is extremely important. Take with you to the interview all of the documents and other information that relates to your problem. Also take with you the names and addresses of the important people that have something to do with your case.

Don’t be afraid to ask your lawyer about his or her credentials. Ask how many cases similar to your’s that she has handled. Prepare a list of questions to ask when you get there – what is the law related to your case? What are the realistic outcomes? What is the lawyer’s philosophy for handling your case? Does she recommend an aggressive approach or one geared more toward settlement?

Consider your comfort level with the attorney and the personal compatibility. Did you get a feeling of trust from the attorney? Did the attorney seem to know what she was talking about? Did the lawyer seem confident about your case? I never recommend that a person hire the first attorney they meet with – always interview at least two attorneys before making a hiring decision.

The next step, once you have decided on an attorney, is to establish reasonable expectations. Many people have never dealt with a lawyer before, so they don’t know what to expect. First and foremost, you should expect frank, honest advice. Your lawyer should point out for you the strong and weak points of your case and give you a realistic expectation of the potential outcomes. She should keep you informed and send you copies of documents pertaining to your case. If a lawyer gives you a guaranteed result, run the other way!!! Lawyers are prohibited from guaranteeing any particular outcome, so be very leery if this happens. Don’t expect your lawyer to act as a psychologist, financial advisor, tax planner, or to give any other advice outside of her expertise. If you need advice in other areas, consult a professional in that area.

Likewise, you should be completely honest and upfront with your lawyer. The best way for your lawyer to protect you is through complete information. Be prompt for appointments and hearings. Some people are not used to having major consequences for tardiness. I have seen more than one judge who doesn’t hesitate to dismiss a case or fine a person for being late to court.

Keep your lawyer advised of your address and phone number. Although this seems simplistic, you can’t imagine how often I have had clients move and fail to tell me. Also tell your lawyer if there are any developments or changes that affect your case.

If a problem arises between you and your lawyer, be open and discuss it. Give your lawyer the opportunity to correct the problem. If the problem can’t be resolved, you have the right to hire another lawyer to help you. Be aware, however, that you shouldn’t make these kinds of decisions too close to a court hearing, as you might not be given additional time to find a new attorney.

A very important aspect of hiring an attorney involves payment of the attorney’s fees. Most attorneys require an initial consultation fee. In other words, you’ll have to pay for the attorney’s time during your first meeting. This fee is usually not more than one hour of the attorney’s time at her usual hourly rate.

During the initial meeting, the attorney should explain the fee arrangement for your case. Most cases are handled on a retainer basis. The client pays a retainer to cover a certain amount of time spent on the case (usually between one and two months of work) and is billed hourly. Most attorneys require that the retainer be replenished when it has been used up. If your case is a simple matter, it may be handled on a flat rate. Most simple wills are done on flat rates. Personal injury cases, like automobile accidents, are based on a contingency fee. The attorney takes a percentage of any collected award – usually between 33% and 40% – and the client doesn’t pay a fee if there is no award.

You should always have a written agreement with the attorney about the fees. Further, make sure you fully understand what you are going to be charged for – like copies and phone calls.

Many people want to know if the attorney can get the fees from the opposing party. The answer is relatively simple – probably not! There are very few instances where the opposing party will be required to pay your attorneys fees. In the rare case where it happens, it will come as a reimbursement at the end of the case for what you have already paid.

If you are a person of very modest or low income, you may contact the nearest legal aid office to see whether you qualify for free legal services. If criminal law is involved, you may be entitled to have the judge over your case appoint a lawyer to represent you.

Souces: ABP World Group Ltd. and Michelle May O’Neil

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Raising Awareness of Parental Alienation and Hostile Aggressive Parenting


Source: Parental alienation Awareness Organization (PAAO)

This is Parental Alienation ( PAS)

Did You Know That…
Parental Alienation is a form of Child Abuse? 

Parental alienation (or Hostile Aggressive Parenting) is a group of behaviors that are damaging to children’s mental and emotional well-being, and can interfere with a relationship of a child and either parent. These behaviors most often accompany high conflict marriages, separation or divorce.

These behaviors whether verbal or non-verbal, cause a child to be mentally manipulated or bullied into believing a loving parent is the cause of all their problems, and/or the enemy, to be feared, hated, disrespected and/or avoided.

Parental alienation and hostile aggressive parenting deprive children of their right to be loved by and showing love for both of their parents. The destructive actions by an alienating parent or other third person (like another family member, or even a well meaning mental health care worker) can become abusive to the child – as the alienating behaviors are disturbing, confusing and often frightening, to the child, and can rob the child of their sense of security and safety leading to maladaptive emotional or psychiatric reactions.

Most people do not know about Parental Alienation and Hostile Aggressive Parenting until they experience it. Parental Alienation Awareness is put forth to help raise awareness about the growth in the problem of targeting children and their relationship in healthy and loving parent/child bond.

You can also find more information about parental alienation here: A Family`s Heartbreak

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