How Family Court cases like Wylie vs Wylie provoke fugitive parents

October 6 , 2014

Source: The Australian

Some women who feel betrayed by the Family Court resort to desperate measures. 


WE had dinner in May 2013, almost a year before the abduction.

Over pasta and salad she said there were dark and terrible things I needed to know about the matter of Wylie v Wylie, the pseudonymous title the Family Court of Australia gave its published judgments in one of the most bitter and complex cases in its 38-year history. “Ms Wylie” was bright, well-spoken and tortured by the belief that her husband, “Mr Wylie”, was sexually abusing their six-year-old twin daughters. She asked if I could help her. I could not.

On June 7, 2013, Family Court judge Justice Peter Tree, “after eight days of trial before me of fiercely contested competing parenting applications relating to the parties’ six-year-old twin girls”, ordered that Mr Wylie have sole parental responsibility for the major long-term care of his children and that Ms Wylie ask her GP for referral to a psychiatrist. “I am satisfied, on the material before me, that the concerns which inevitably would otherwise have flowed from the mother’s notice of abuse, have been sufficiently addressed by the evidence,” said Justice Tree.

That evidence included documents detailing the outcome of an investigation conducted by the Queensland Police Service and the Department of Child Safety into Ms Wylie’s child abuse ­allegations against her husband that found: “Nil physical evidence of sexual abuse indicated through medical examination; nil verbal reports from the children of abuse over four interviews with QPS and Child Safety; verbal report from [one twin] to QPS and Child Safety citing coaching from her mother to make statements.”

On February 14 this year, Ms Wylie sent me a 1549-word email: “I have now seen two psychiatrists, four psychologists and a victims-of-crime counsellor who have all said that I am sane. The father and the Family Court believe I am not, so I just keep being sent to another mental health professional. I believe that this will keep happening until one of them says what the court wants to hear.

“Everything is being done by those who should be protecting my children to protect their abuser, and [the twins] are still forced to live with him.

“One in four children are sexually abused. Only one in 100 pedophiles see the inside of a prison cell. It is not because children aren’t talking, it is that they aren’t believed, and, more often than not, if their abuser is their father, he is given custody.”

On April 1, Ms Wylie sent a message to me that was also sent to Acting Inspector Craig Weatherley of the Queensland Police Child Safety and Sexual Crime Group: “I have tried and tried to have faith that the people who are paid to protect my children would do so. This situation needs to be made very public. It is ­horrifying on so many levels.”

On April 3, Ms Wylie emailed me a photograph of one of her girls. She was smiling, in a red dress, wearing the same kind of purple angel wings that my own seven-year-old daughter wears on occasion. “This is a photo of [her] BEFORE she started bleeding from her rectum and contracting another vaginal infection,” Ms Wylie wrote. “Painfully thin, eyes sunken in her head, and apparently absolutely no need for concern in regards to how well she is being ‘cared’ for. Can you imagine what state she is in now? They say a picture says a thousand words. This is the reality of her life right now.”


The next day, April 4, Mr Wylie dropped his girls at the gate of the school they attend. It was between 8.30am and 8.40am, the last day of school before the Easter holidays. He watched his daughters walk 30m from the car to the school gate, amid the usual chaos of school drop-off; kids running left and right, parents zipping back and forth. His eyes zeroed in on his children and he said to himself, “Gee, they’re getting big those girls.”

Sometime between entering the school gate and the sound of the morning bell, the girls vanished. The Family Court issued a media release that spread across the country: “Fugitive mother of two [Ms Wylie] remains on the run more than a week after she is believed to have abducted her twin daughters from their … primary school. By now, she could quite literally be ­anywhere in Australia.

“The suspected abduction is unlawful and in breach of Family Court orders which [Ms Wylie] consented to … It is inevitable that someone has seen the trio in their travels, and may even know their present whereabouts. Any assistance knowingly provided to a criminal to avoid punishment is itself a serious crime.

“Their father is deeply concerned and desperately seeking public help.”

Ms Wylie was issued one of the 520 recovery orders made by the Family Court of Australia and the Federal Circuit Court in the past year, orders that Chief Justice Diana Bryant calls a “last resort” when parents don’t voluntarily return children, or take them on the run.

I went back over the emails Ms Wylie had sent me throughout the past year and my thoughts kept returning to her message of April 1, three days before the abduction. Her desperate course was mapped in two lines. “I have had enough of playing nice,” she wrote. “Following the rules does not work.”

I’m looking at Mr Wylie as he’s talking, ­telling me what it feels like to be a father of two kids still on the run with their mother, five long months after they disappeared. I’m studying his teeth, his hair, his skin and his speech to make foolish and unqualified gut assessments about whether or not he speaks the truth. He will get this for the rest of his life and he knows it. The stain of the allegation. “You have your best friends asking you outright, ‘Tell me now, did you do it or not?’” he says.

He cries when he says this, screws his face up, grits his teeth. The thought has a physical impact on him. “They want to help but they don’t want to be put in a position where they’re supporting someone who is a child abuser.

“One police officer said to me, ‘It’s the easiest allegation to make but the hardest one to prove and if you hate someone enough, that would be the way to go.’”

He pulls a small red rental car into a carpark on Brisbane’s suburban northside, where police have had unconfirmed sightings of Ms Wylie and her two daughters. “We used to live here,” he says. “She knows the area well.”

He pops his boot, takes a block of A4 posters marked, “ABDUCTED/MISSING $10,000 REWARD. For information leading to the location of missing 7-year-old non-identical twins… abducted by non-custodial parent in breach of court orders”. His girls beam in school uniform photos, one daughter missing her two front teeth. He sticks the posters to light poles, public noticeboards; hands them out to strangers.

“I came back to school at 3pm that afternoon to pick them up,” he says. “There were kids coming out and one little girl with her dad says to me, ‘What’s wrong with [one of the twins]? She wasn’t at school today.’ I thought she was just confused.

“Then I went in to where they wait to be picked up and there was no one there. I went up to their classroom and the teacher came out and said, ‘They haven’t been here all day.’” He shakes his head. “That’s not good.”

Tears fill his eyes again. “They found her car and the kids’ uniforms and school bags abandoned in the car about five minutes away from the school,” he says. “I don’t know whether she was waiting there, but, obviously, there’s been a changeover of cars.”

He shows me the text message he sent her immediately that afternoon: “Call me urgently.”

“I knew immediately it was [her]. I thought it was almost inevitable. She was getting to the end of the line. In terms of trying to push that line she was going with. There was no further way she could push it through the court. The only thing that was left for her was to take them.”

Mr Wylie met Ms Wylie in a public gym. They married in 2000, bought and renovated and sold houses in the property boom, travelled and worked through Europe. Their twin girls were born through IVF in 2007, when Mr Wylie was establishing his own small business.

“We had arguments,” he says. “We’d had a bit of conflict — mortgages, business debts. It was the usual thing, money. She had her ideas on business, I had mine. We had differences in parenting. We were fighting after the girls had gone to bed. Eventually I said we should split up.”


And the war began. Fights over debt, fights over houses, legal fights over custody arrangements, accusations of domestic violence. Then Mr Wylie received a text message from Ms Wylie: “You need to talk to the Department of Child Safety, they’ve got some concerns.” A mandatory report had been made to the department alleging, Mr Wylie says, that one of the twins made a disclosure to an occupational ­therapist: “Daddy hurts me down here.”

A departmental “Assessment of Harm and Risk of Harm”, however, later determined that “the children are at risk of emotional harm as a result of the allegations being made that their father is sexually harming them. Their mother has advised that she was sexually abused as a child and believes that [Mr Wylie] is doing exactly the same things to her daughters. A parent who has been harmed as a child is more likely to display harmful parenting patterns relating to what they were subjected to themselves as a child.

“There is previous child protection history in relation to [Ms Wylie] alleging the girls were being sexually harmed by their father. The outcome of this investigation was Unsubstantiated as [the twin] advised that the rash was caused by her underpants being too tight.

“[Ms Wylie] appears to be experiencing a high degree of stress as a result of her relationship breakdown with [Mr Wylie].”

Mr Wylie sips water at a small cafe before setting off to walk the streets handing out ­pictures of his girls. “It’s vigilantism,” he says. “It’s laughing in the face of the law.”

He looks down at one of his reward leaflets. “The hardest thing to think about is the stuff they’re experiencing right now,” he says. “The fear, the anxiety, the ideas being put into their heads: ‘Daddy’s not safe.’”

In the five months she’s been on the run, somewhere across Australia, Ms Wylie’s story has spilled from the courts into the slaughterhouse of the internet. One men’s rights website has dubbed her a “child abuser, child abductor, fugitive, feminist”. A “Friends of…” website, on the other hand, lists testimonials about Ms Wylie’s character from family and friends, including Professor Ros Thorpe, emeritus professor of social work at James Cook University and president of the Family Inclusion Network Townsville, which considers the interests of both children and ­parents in the child ­protection process.

Almost a year ago, Ms Wylie made an aside to Thorpe, her friend. “It might come to the point where I might have to take off with them,” Ms Wylie said.

“I said to her, ‘I don’t think that’s a good idea because the consequences for you will be bad,’” says Thorpe. “I was shocked [but] I wasn’t ­surprised because she’s been tortured by this. I don’t think she’s mentally unbalanced at all. She has no psychopathology. She’s not crazy.”

Thorpe and her long-time friend Dr Freda Briggs AO, emeritus professor in child development at the University of South Australia, had been staunch advocates for Ms Wylie prior to the abduction. They believed her, heart and soul. They still do. They’ve called for a reinvestigation of the case, saying key witnesses — including family members who allege to have heard direct disclosures of abuse by the girls — were not interviewed during the harrowing investigations and court hearings.

Briggs is working on multiple cases of ­mothers who feel betrayed by the Family Court. “Why would these mums give up their jobs, their homes, their positions, their support ­networks and flee with their children if it wasn’t something serious? They are taking the children into hiding to protect them from the parent and the Family Court.”

Briggs analysed interview transcripts from the Wylie case and claimed “inappropriate questioning of the children” by police. “How does a police inspector know what language would have been developmentally appropriate for kids aged four and five?” she says. “It requires great sensitivity and special skill in interviewing young children. You need a child-­focused environment and you are required to spend a great deal of time with the child. Those children were interviewed all over the place, in police stations and in the school office. The police said the father… was safe and that he would never do anything to harm them. No responsible professional would make such a statement because no one can be sure what went on in that home.”

Mr Wylie counters: “Their argument is, ‘Police bullied the kids, they’re not experts in child development.’ Well, the Child Protection and Investigation Unit is specifically tasked with dealing with these issues and questioning these kids. Officers from Brisbane were flown up to interview the kids again, for the fourth time after this complaint was made. These were the best of the best, the head of all the CPI units in Queensland brought his senior detective up, the one who trains all the other CPI detectives. And it was exactly the same outcome. And then the supporters are like, ‘Well, it’s obvious the father is coaching them.’

“That’s what I put to Freda Briggs. I mapped it all out and I said, ‘What more possible investigation could there be?’ ”

Briggs says the case ­highlights a growing problem within Australian family law. “The Family Court was set up for divorces,” she says. “It was not set up for child abuse cases.

“These situations happen so frequently that now family lawyers and the women’s legal services advise the mothers to not tell the Family Court about child abuse because you are likely to be labelled as delusional or malicious and you become the bad parent. The focus goes on the mother and the mother loses the child.

“What we would really like is to be able to get child abuse cases out of the Family Court or ensure that judges or participants are experts in child development and child abuse which, currently, they are not.”

When he retired from the Parramatta Family Court last year, seasoned judge Justice David Collier made a rare public statement about an increase in accusations of child abuse in hostile cases. “I’m satisfied that a number of people who have appeared before me have known that it is one of the ways of completely shutting ­husbands out of the child’s life,” he told The Sydney Morning Herald. “It’s a horrible weapon.”


Alastair Nicholson was Chief Justice of the Family Court of Australia from 1988 to 2004. “I have a lot of time for David Collier but I wouldn’t put it as strongly as that,” he says. “I think, on the other hand, these fights get very bitter and you certainly will get some cases where that will happen. Of course, the real risk anyone takes who makes a false allegation is that if you make false allegations, and knowingly do so, the court’s very likely to say, ‘Well, you’re really not fit to be a parent of the child because you’ve been prepared to use the child in this way.’ So it may all go very pear-shaped from that person’s point of view. To say nothing of the child.”

A separate specialist court to process such matters is not the answer, according to ­Nicholson. “There’s only so far you can go with this specialist concept,” he says. “You’d go crazy ­hearing these cases all the time. The judge does. You have to have a break from it. I’d be very ­worried about the effect of having a specialist court just dealing with these cases.”

He welcomes, however, a broader system that better connects the long-disconnected ­systems of state and commonwealth. “It’s pie-in-the-sky stuff, but I’ve long thought that instead of having state child protection courts and the federal family court with a child protection capacity, there should be one system throughout Australia because, otherwise, it really doesn’t work very well. There’s more co-operation than there used to be but it’s still not an ideal system.”

Either way, he says, and “despite the determination of individuals, there has to be a stop somewhere” — meaning a legal decision that all parties must live with.

“It is, of course, easy to make an allegation,” Nicholson says. “Of course, you get some outright liars, but in my experience there were a lot of cases where a suspicion had arisen and the person becomes convinced that the suspicion is reality. They’ll blame the systems, they’ll blame the experts, and you always have that ­terrible feeling, ‘Well, maybe they have got it right.’ It’s one of those things that you lie awake at night about.”

Dad, I am so angry right now. I cannot believe that my own father would lie to me for my whole life and just pretend like everything is OK … I will not wait any longer for my psychopathic father to tell the truth. I have already given you more than 10 years … I can’t think of anyone who hasn’t been destroyed by your lies. You NEED TO GET HELP NOW. Don’t end your life living with a lie. Make the most of the rest of your life and get help. You are a very special person to me, make sure you remember that. I will never stop loving you but I absolutely HATE your behaviour.

Abbey [surname withheld]

That is an edited letter written by a 14-year-old West Australian girl to her father in December 2010. In May last year, Abbey ­disclosed to her mother that her father sexually assaulted her repeatedly between the ages of three and seven. In November last year, Abbey took her own life, aged 17.

In 2002, Abbey’s father was charged with the sexual assault of Abbey’s best friend when she was seven. It would take Abbey years to disclose that she, too, had been assaulted by her father with her best friend on regular sleepovers.

In 2005, her father was convicted and sentenced to four years in prison, released on parole after two years. Upon his release, despite protestations from Abbey’s mother, the father was granted access visits with his three children by the Family Court of Western Australia. “In my attempts to protect my children, I was treated as a hysterical woman by the Family Court, even though [the father] had been charged with child sexual offences at the time,” Abbey’s mother says. “I was made to look like a vindictive wife instead of what I was, a protective mother.”

She has called on the state government to launch an inquest into her daughter’s death. Meanwhile, national child protection advocate Bravehearts has launched Abbey’s Project in her daughter’s name, calling for and recording exhaustive statements from Australians who have experienced “instances where deficiencies in the Family Court practices, policies and procedures have resulted in children being assaulted and placed at serious risk of sexual harm”, ­culminating in a report to be submitted to the Royal Commission into Institutional Responses to Child Sexual Abuse.

Bravehearts founder Hetty Johnston hopes the project will be “the precursor for a much larger and broader inquiry into the operations of the Family Court of Australia and related child protection organisations and institutions”. She says: “Every week in Australia, the Family Courts are ordering children into contact with, and even into the custody of parents who are dangerous, toxic and abusive because Family Courts do not have the powers, expertise and resources to competently investigate allegations of child abuse.”

Court-ordered contact with her father left a pre-teen Abbey deeply confused, says her mother, seeding the anorexia and self-loathing that plagued her teens. “I know why [Ms Wylie] is running,” says Abbey’s mother. “Because she’s alone. It makes you feel sick. For 10 years I have felt sick. All I was trying to do was protect my kids through the Family Court but I was so alone. No one heard me. And now Abbey’s dead.

“I know why mothers run. I wish I had run myself. Abbey would still be here.”

Ms Wylie’s parents live on a sprawling Queensland cattle property. It keeps them busy; keeps their minds off thoughts about where on Earth their daughter and grandchildren might be. They say their daughter is a resourceful woman, as at home in a tent by a creek bed as she is in a plush hotel suite.

The couple has been receiving counselling through the past five months. “I worry where they are,” Ms Wylie’s mum says. “Are they OK? It gets cold and I think, ‘Are they warm enough?’ I know they’ll be happy with their mother though. She will spend her time trying to make them happy.”

Family Court of Australia Chief Justice Diana Bryant has a far grimmer picture in her head. “Abduction of children always has a detrimental impact on the children,” she says. “First, there is the removal from familiar surroundings, school, friends and family, and especially the other parent. Then there is the subterfuge and hiding and often the adoption of false identities. Children may also be kept away from school to avoid detection.

“In order to live in this situation and where children are old enough to ask questions, a regime of denigration and rejection of the other parent is often necessary to justify the circumstances. This is likely to have a long-term detrimental psychological impact on the children.

“Once located, the possibility that the children could be removed from the abducting ­parent will also be traumatic for them. When a parent abducts a child and goes into hiding, the children will inevitably be harmed and will always be the losers in these situations.”

“The grandparents want the children to live with them,” says Briggs, referring to the Wylie case. “It’s not going to happen, is it? He’ll get the kids back and she’ll go to jail.”

“What do you mean, ‘What if he is innocent?’ ” asks Professor Thorpe. “You mean, ‘How would I react?’ Well, I would find it very hard to believe and accept, just as his supporters find it hard to believe that he has abused the girls.”

Every day, meanwhile, Ms Wylie’s parents finish their day’s work on the farm and then go inside and wait by the phone for news of their daughter. The only way they can communicate with her is through news pieces such as this. “Take care,” her dad says. “And we love you.”

Sometimes the phone rings late in the night, wakes them up. “Hello?” her dad says. “Hello?”

But there’s no response. Only silence.

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Færøerne er de pædofiles paradis

Juni 17 , 2013

Kilde: Extrabladet / TV2

Frustrerede færinger: 3,5 gange flere børn misbruges seksuelt på Færøerne end i resten af rigsfællesskabet – ofre kræver, at Danmark griber ind

«Hvis du er jomfru som 15-åring, er det fordi du løper fortere enn bestefaren din».

Faroe Island
Slik lyder ifølge Ekstra Bladet et galgenhumoristisk ordtak på Færøyene. Men bak vitsen ligger en dypt alvorlig og tragisk virkelighet:Den danske øygruppen med om lag 50.000 har hatt indre selvstyre siden 1948, men nå krever øyboerne at myndighetene i København tar affære. En fersk undersøkelse fra Aarhus Universitet viser nemlig at hele 5,2 prosent av elevene i åttendeklasse på færøyske skoler er blitt seksuelt misbrukt.Det betyr at én eller to elever i hver eneste skoleklasse har vært ofre for misbruk. Dette er 3,5 ganger så mange som i resten av Danmark.

– Færøyene er de pedofiles paradis, sier en 57 år gammel kvinne til den danske avisen. Eksmannen forgrep seg på barna hennes, i tillegg til at hun selv er et offer.

Som barn ble hun selv misbrukt av sin far, som ifølge Ekstra Bladet er en kjent offentlig person på øygruppen. Til avisens reporter skildrer hun hvordan hun som barn snek seg til å overnatte på skolen for å slippe å gå hjem.

Se Ekstra Bladets minidokumentar om temaet her

– Samfunnet på Færøyene er lite, lukket og ekstremt religiøst. Alle kjenner hverandre. Konsekvensen er at pedofile og incestutøvere kan gjøre hva de vil, fordi myndighetene holder en beskyttende hånd over dem, men ofrene blir sykeliggjort. Slik har det vært i generasjoner, og det kommer til å fortsette om ikke Danmark griper inn, sier hun.

KONTROVERSIELL: Legen og politikeren Jenis Av Rana. Bildet er tatt i forbindelse med Nordisk Råds septembermøte i Oslo for to år siden.

KONTROVERSIELL: Legen og politikeren Jenis Av Rana. Bildet er tatt i forbindelse med Nordisk Råds septembermøte i Oslo for to år siden. Foto: Karl R. Lilliendahl,

En av dem avisen konfrontere i sin dekning, er legen Jenis Av Rana, som også er medlem av det færøyske parlamentet. Av Rana er kjent for sin svært kristenkonservative retorikk.

Et offer forteller til avisen hvordan hun som 15-åring betrodde seg til Av Rana om farens overgrep. Legen reagerte med å spørre om hun var klar over at faren ville havne i fengsel om han gikk videre med informasjonen.

– Jeg har ingen kommentarer til denne saken, sier Av Rana til avisen, og understreker at han selv mener at han er en av dem som gjør mest for utsatte barn på øygruppen.

– Lokket med Donald-blader

– Jeg har stadig vekk mareritt om det skjedde: Jeg satt på sengekanten og måtte «gi ham en blow-job», forteller Joen Peter Roda (46). Han sliter stadig med alvorlige traumer etter et overgrep i barndommen.

Som femåring ble han lokket i fellen av en eldre gutt med Donald Duck-blader. Etterpå løpte ham hjem til moren:

– Hun dysset det ned og sa at «slik snakker man ikke om». Om vi skal komme til bunns i problemet, er det nødvendig at det kommer noen utenfra, sier han med klar adresse til danske myndigheter i København.

Havnar Kirkja

Ingen andre i Norden er i nærheten av å være like flinke kirkegjengere som befolkningen på Færøyene. I tillegg samler kristne lekmannsbevegelser som Plymouth Brethren over ti prosent av innbyggerne. Avisen går langt i å sette overgrepene i sammenheng med kristne miljøer.

Flere Facebook-grupper for ofre og pårørende av ofre diskuterer temaene. Noen av gruppene fører streng kontroll på hvem som slipper inn:

– Emnet er følsomt og tabubelagt på Færøyene. Overgripere og folk fra religiøse grupperinger kan finne på å spionere, sier kvinnen (57).

Les også: The Faroe Islands, a nightmare of Parental Child Abduction – Miriam bortført til Færøerne

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– Norsk rett reklamerer for kidnapping

– Barneloven er ikke verdt papiret den er skrevet på, sukker legen Tom Viken. Norsk rett har gitt sønnen hans til hun som kidnappet han. 

Barne-, likestillings- og inkluderingsminister Inga Marte Thorkildsen

Tom Viken gjør hagen i Asker klar for sommeren, men uten sin snart to år gamle sønn.

Legen, som har hatt ansvar for barnevernsinstitusjoner og mor barn-sentre i 12 år, opplevde at gutten hans ble bortført av den svensk-iranske moren for ett år siden, da samlivet tok slutt.

Til tross for utreisetilbud på grunn av mistanke om bortføring tok hun barnet med ut av landet og til Sverige.

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Apen er et symbol på seksualitet!

Av: Kjell Schevig, Bortfø

Den lille gutten plukket seg ut en lekeapekatt fra psykoterapeutens utvalg av dokker og lekedyr. Apen, forklarte psykoterapeuten til domstolen, er et symbol på seksualitet, og derfor måtte et overgrep ha funnet sted. Les mer om denne utrolige historien i BT Magasinet 09.04.11 og Ole Texmos artikkel ”Når retten ikke virker”.

På åtti- og nittitallet opplevde vi en flodbølge av incestbeskyldninger i barnefordelingssaker. Mange foreldre fikk fengselsstraffer. Men i ettertid har det vist seg at flere saker ikke hadde noen forankring i virkeligheten. Den pensjonerte dommeren Trygve Lange-Nielsen gjenopptok mange saker, og bidro til oppklaring av 24 justismord.

Atle Joar Hage tok sitt eget liv etter å ha sonet en dom for seksuelle overgrep mot sine to barn, men ble 11 år etter sin død fullstendig renvasket i en gjenopptakelsessak som barna selv anla.

Lagmannsrettens enstemmige frifinnelse av Atle Joar Hage inneholdt sterk kritikk av de sakkyndige psykologene som var overbevist om at Atle hadde misbrukt sine barn. Hages eks-kone har rettet feilaktige incestbeskyldninger mot i alt tre menn: Atle Joar Hage, Per Borthen (andre ektemann), samt hennes og Atle Joars sønn. Kvinnen har utrolig nok ikke blitt stilt til ansvar for all elendigheten hun har forårsaket.

Fremdeles forekommer det uforholdsmessig mange anklager om seksuelle overgrep ved barnefordelingsaker, men i dag fester domstolene sjeldnere lit til anklagene, og det fører sjeldent til straffesaker. Likevel mister som regel foreldre som er utsatt incestbeskylninger all kontakt med barna sine, antakelig fordi rettssakkyndige psykologer og barnevernsansatte er veldig opptatt av sex. I boken “Norske ruiner i utvalg” gir Jon Gulbrandsen følgende eksempler:

”En psykolog hadde analysert en barnetegning i forbindelse med en undersøkelsessak for barnevernet.  Barnet hadde tegnet en by, og blant alle husene fantes også noen høyhus, noe psykologen syntes var mistenkelige fordi de var avlange i form …  Hun konkluderte med at høyhusene var fallossymboler og at barnet derfor kunne ha vært utsatt for seksuelle overgrep. Men det er ikke bare høyhus som kan synes mistenkelige.

I den berømmelige Bjugnsaken hadde en ingen konkrete holdepunkter for at overgrep hadde funnet sted i Botngård Barnehage, men sju mennesker ble likevel fengslet, og én var nær ved å bli dømt. Grunnlaget var ofte ikke annet enn at en spesialpsykolog hadde fortalt retten at hun var bekymret fordi barn tegnet store ører, eller at en klinisk pedagog mente at hun kunne avdekke overgrep ved å oppfordre barn til å fantasere om overgrep eller hypotetisk å godta at overgrep hadde funnet sted.”

Psykolog Arvid Inge Solli, som har operert som rettssakkyndig siden 1984, møtte en svært velartikulert far i retten. Solli likte ikke å bli motsagt, og proklamerte til retten at ”farens veltalenhet var et forvarsel om at han kunne bli voldelig og ukontrollert”.

Om psykologer tror at barn har blitt utsatt for overgrep, og prøver å mane fram minner, kan de skape falske minner hos barna.  Store norske leksikon definerer det slik: Falske minner – forekommer når folk mener å «huske» hendelser som avviker fra det som virkelig har skjedd. Slike forestillinger kan oppstå ved at man forveksler informasjon fra andre kilder (hva man er blitt fortalt, kan tenke seg, eller har opplevd i ettertid) med faktiske erindringer. Hendelser fra barndommen som man tilsynelatende har glemt eller fortrengt, men som kan vekkes til live på et senere tidspunkt (for eksempel under psykoterapi), kan vise seg å være falske.”

Les hele saken her: Bortfø

Published by: ABP World Group International Child Recovery Services

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